On the 5th of May, our conversation started after I looked at Kounila´s blog and posted this comment on her weblog article “Hello to Students of Flensburg University” :
Hi Kounila!
It was interesting to read your blog entries. I was astonished to read that you are in your third year already. Most students in Germany are older in their third year. Are you also leaving school after 13 years before you can go to university in Cambodia?
Have a nice day,
Sveja
On the 08th of May, Kounila´s nice answer was sent to my email folder:
Hi Sveja!
I have had 12 years of general knowledge education (primary, secondary and high schools)

I started school at the age of 4, finished high school at 17 but worked for one year. Then, I started university at 18… now I’m a third year student, so I should be 21 … And I just turned 21 in March this year. What about you?
Would you like to see a funny picture of me? I hope you can send me one too

I don’t in fact wear glasses and those were just used for fun.

This is what I replied:
Hi Kounila!
Thank you very much for your email. I like your picture – it is so funny! I send you a funny picture of me too.
Well, about school-: I have had 13 years of general knowledge education primary, secondary and grammar school, but like most children in Germany I started school at the age of 6, some children start school at the age of 7 if they have just turned 6 when school starts. Their the parents can decide wether or not they should go to school that year or next year. Me and Tom also think about waiting one more year until our son goes to school (he is one of these so called “can-children”).
I finished school at 19 then also worked for one year – like you- and started university at 20. When I was 21 my son was born and I made a break for half a year and then continued to study while Tom looked after our baby.
After my exam he worked and I waited one and a half year until I was given a position as “teacher in training” for English and art at secondary school. There I worked for one year until I chose to quit and study Culture-language-media. I´ll be finished by October next year and will be 28 then.
I wish you a great day!
Greetings, Sveja
On Tuesday, 19th of May, Kounilla wrote me back. This is her email:
Hi Sveja,
That’s a very funny picture of you!! Sveja, can you explain what a grammar school is in yrou country? i have heard of it many times, but didn’t have an inspiration enough to get to know it more.
“Can-children”?? Oh, I’m curious to know more about this. 
So, were you a secondary school teacher now?? How was it like? Actually, I have two cousins living in Germany. My female cousin is teaching small children at the kindergarten in Munchen, as i remember it clearly. So besides study now, what else do you do like what you do in ur free time?
How is your son like and what is his name?
… And how do you feel to be a mom now, Sveja?
I hope my questions aren’t too much.. hehe.. but I am interested to know more about you.
Cheers, Kounila
I enjoyed our communication a lot and hope it will be continued, untill then this is my last mail to Kounilla. I sent it on Tuesday evening, 19th of May.
Hi Kounila!
A grammar school is how we usually translate “Gymnasium” if you go to that type of school you take your exam after 13 or in some parts of Germany 12 years. With the exam (called “Abi”) you can go and study at a university. Children who go to another type of school quit school after 9/10 years, aged 15-17 and usually do an apprenticeship-that means they get three years of training on the job and then they get a certificate which says how well they performed in their apprenticeship as mechanic, baker, hairstylitst…Teachers and parents decide together to which school a child should go after 4th grade when the child is 9 or 10 years old. Some people argue this is too early to decide sth. as important as that.
“Can-children“ means basically that the parents of the child can decide if the child should be one of the youngest children in the first class or go to school one year later and be one of the oldest children in the class. Children who turn 6 year old before the 30th of June have to enter school that summer. Since Jeremy´s 6th birthday is in August he can go to school that summer but can also wait untill next year.
I didn´t like to be a teacher very much- it´s too much about knowlege that can be tested to give the children grades – I think grades shouldn´t be so important. And it´s no fun to teach children who don´t like the subject and are not interested. That means most of the time I just tried to make the children be quiet enough to go on teaching. After a year I wanted to do something else -that´s why I started to study culture-language-media. The good thing about it is that there are so many different possibilities of what to do with it later on.
In my freetime I like to take pictures of my friends and family and I love to develop the pictures in the photographic laboritory. In summer I like going to the beach with my friends there we play games, swimm, play volleyball or have a barbecue. I also like to play the piano whenever I find the time. I spend a lot of time with Jeremy too, but now he is just playing hide and seek with his best friend from kindergarten.
I think it´s great to have a child, it helps me to see the world with different eyes sometimes- it is nice to love someone so much and it also requires a lot of organization to get everything done.
You probably know that from studying two different subjects at the same time. How do you do this? Is everybody studying two subjects at once where you live? Do you visit your cousins in Germany sometimes or do they visit you and your family in Phnom Pen? Do you live with your family or in your own place? Do you have brothers and sisters? And what do you like to do in your free time?
Cheers, Sveja